Notice Sounds

Depending on our physiological make-up, our background and our genes each of us has a preference for how we take in information from the world.  Some of us are visual.  I’m raising my hands because that’s what I tend to do.  We take in information through our eyes, through sights and through images. Whenever we enter into a new space we see what is there primarily.  Noises are secondary and touch is tertiary.

Some of us however aren’t seers or visual people. Their nature is to be auditory. They take in information through their ears. They process  information through sound.  Finally, some people are kinesthetic which means that neither the visual or the auditory tends to have much punch.  The primary sensory input  for kinesthetic people is through touch. When anybody, any person, any entity, any living creature is touched, a wealth of information is conveyed to the person who is kinesthetic.

The mindfulness challenge today and this week is primarily for individuals who do not typically take information in through sound. Each and every day when you are in a safe space, when you are sitting down, turn off your visual senses and your kinesthetic senses, then activate your hearing senses.  Take into your body everything that you hear, however loud or soft; however abrasive or however sweet to the soul and heart.  It doesn’t matter what sounds you are hearing. Simply acknowledge them and hear them.  Notice that the sounds come from many different places and sources.  There are layers and layers on top of sounds once you begin to be attentive to them.

It’s even more complicated however – we don’t just hear sounds that are external to our body. There are also sounds that come deep within our body.  Our body actually makes noise continuously.  Our body makes noise all the time.  Notice what noises your body might be making internally.  Simply hear and acknowledge those noises.

Finally, there is a sound that many people also hear; it is almost as though there is a voice outside of them talking with them, consoling them, giving them advice.  I have a very well-known songwriter friend who tells that all of her songs are heard by her before she actually writes them.  Where does that sound come from? Where does that music come from?  She says she has no idea. It simply happens to be a gift that has been given to her from somewhere far, far away.

The invitation however doesn’t have to do with these sounds that come from some place other than physical.  Focus your attention on all physical sources of sounds whether they are external to you or internal in the sense of sounds that your body actually emits.

I now have a companion invitation that will fascinate all of you whether you happen to be kinesthetic, visual or auditory.  As you are in bed and about ready to go to sleep, I invite you to cup both of your ears with your hands and listen to what you hear – to what sounds your body is making.  Do it every night. Do it for at least a couple of minutes and if you are so motivated, keep your hands cupped for at least 10 minutes.  Place your hands in a comfortable position so you don’t have to hold them up – literally rest them on the pillow, cup and enjoy.

May you treasure each and every sound bite that you hear continuously throughout the week.  Be sure that when you turn your full attention and focus to sounds that you are in a safe place, that you are seated and that you are not required to perform any particular duty or have any particular responsibility.  It’s important not to activate those new neural pathways if you are doing driving or operating heavy machinery, or doing anything that might result in injury.

May you delight in listening to sounds all week long.  Some of you of course take in sounds as a matter of routine, so this challenge won’t be new to you, but cupping your hands and listening to your body will.  Enjoy and we’ll talk more about the deeper meaning of listening to the sounds in a few days.

Robert

© Parkinsons Recovery

Notice Red

The mindfulness challenge this week is to take noticing the color red very, very seriously.  Some mindfulness gurus take students by the hand, blindfolded, into a room they have never seen before.  They remove the blindfold, then ask the student to gaze around the room with the expectation that they will be asked to describe what is in the room.  They are only given about 15 seconds. The blindfold is re-affixed and the question is asked,

“Now describe what is in this room.” 

It’s a particularly challenging task for most people.  The task I have this week is nothing as difficult or onerous as that task, but in a way it has the same intent.  The task is each day, throughout the entire week, to take notice of everything that has red or is the color red.

  • This might be red on a billboard, red on the highway, red on a signal light or a traffic sign. 
  • It may be red that you notice in a picture on a wall. 
  • It may be red in a carpet that you are walking on. 
  • It may be the texture of red on the walls of a room that you are entering or red that is worn by people who you encounter.

Of course you might acknowledge red that you may yourself be wearing that day. You will soon know better than most that red is found all over the place.

The task however is to take special notice every time you encounter the color red no matter where you find it.  I invite you to let red find you. Consider this to be a serious search everyday as you meticulously search for red everywhere in the environment you find yourself in.

An ancillary assignment that you may want to undertake one or two or all seven days is to keep a mental count of the number of times you spotted the color red.  Don’t actually make a record on a piece of paper or a notebook. See if you can remember the last number in the count and then add to that number when you see an object with the color red.  Do this until you actually reach the number 100.  If you get the end of the day and realize you are only at 64, then do a meticulous search to find more and more objects that have the color red unit you reach the magical number of 100.

There is a final mindfulness invitation. This one is only for situations where you are in a secure, safe place. Do not consider doing this while driving or certainly not while operating heavy equipment machinery. When you are in a safe place and you spot the color red no matter what it happens to be on or where it is coming from – whether from the sky or the earth – something in nature or something man-made – allow yourself to receive and be soaked with the frequency of red.  Allow yourself to become red each time that you see it.

This will become more understandable in a few days.  Enjoy the next few days as you encounter object after object that contains the color red. Marvel at the redness that you encounter.

Robert

© Parkinsons Recovery

Touch

My invitation for you this week is to become aware and sensitive of touch.

  • What does it feel like to touch objects?
  • What does it feel like to touch people?
  • What does it really feel like when you are “touched” by another person? 

Each time you are touched, whether it is simply because somebody brushed you by accident or somebody intentionally placed their hand on your shoulder,  become aware and sensitive to how it feels inside your body.  Does it feel:

  • Soft
  • Warm
  • Cozy
  • Loving
  • Tender

Or does the touch feel:

  • Abrasive
  • Aggressive
  • Sharp
  • Edgy
  • Unpleasant 

Each time you are touched, step back and pause for just five or ten seconds. Ask yourself,

“How did it feel when I was just touched by someone else?” 

Turn that assignment around and each time you touch either a person or an object, do the very same thing.

“How did it feel when I just touched someone else?” 

Do the same quick assessment when you touch objects:

  1. If you pick up a fork, how does the fork feel to you? 
  2. If you are washing a glass in the sink, how does it feel to touch that glass? 
  3. If you’re holding a book to read, how does the book feel to the touch of your hands? 
  4. If you are placing your hand inside the hand of another that you love, how does that feel at the moment when touch and contact is made?

For each and every physical contact that you make, pause ever so effortlessly and briefly. Acknowledge when you pause how it feels when either you are touched or you touch another object or another person.

Become mindful. Become aware each and every moment of each and every experience.

  • Is it tender?
  • Is it sweet?
  • Is it loving?

Or, is it so quick and abrasive that it is not even noticed?

Enjoy becoming aware of touch this week.

Robert

© Parkinsons Recovery